Cock Rubber

Wear it and people can grab you - or hold on and rub. Rubbing builds an arousal level that drives your cock harder over time, plays moans, fires chat emotes, and can drive a real Lovense toy. Everything below is optional: switch off whatever you don't want.

Getting started

1. Wear it

   Wear the Cock Rubber from your inventory. It sets itself up on the first wear - there is nothing to configure before it works.

2. Wear your P (optional)

   The cock itself is The P (Physics Cock) by ASA - a separate product from another creator that you buy and wear yourself. Wear it at the same time and the two find each other automatically. There is no pairing step.

3. Open the menu

   Click your rubber, or type /69 cock. Everything lives under 🔧 Customize.

4. Link it to the website (optional)

   From the main menu tap 🌐 Web Login and a personal link opens. It signs you straight into your dashboard - no password to remember.

Grab vs rub - the difference that matters

This is the single most useful thing to understand about the product, and it is not obvious:

Rubbing "hard" vs "slowly"

The product watches how fast someone drags their mouse across you - not how fast they click, and not how long they hold. Holding the button perfectly still reads as gentle. Drag quickly and the hover text and emotes switch from slowly to hard.

The Arousal System

Your rubber has a built-in Arousal System. Rubbing raises your arousal level, letting go lets it fall, and everything else follows it: how hard you get, when you start dripping, how strongly a Lovense toy buzzes, and which emotes fire. Switch on Hover Text for an optional gauge above you showing the live percentage.

Here is what happens as it climbs:

How fast it climbs

🍆 The P • Increase sets the pace, 1 (slow) to 5 (fast). Decrease works the same way for coming back down.

Times assume one unbroken rub. A hard rub through the 30–45% window shaves a little off.

When they let go

Letting go isn't instant. Your level keeps climbing for about a second, and the first real drop lands roughly 2 to 3 seconds after they stop. At that moment your cock switches from an active pulse to its own slower throb, a connected toy stops, and the "rubbed by" name disappears from your hover text while the percentage carries on counting down.

The rest of the P settings

The seven firmness levels

Firmness sets how hard you get at your peak. Tap a level in the menu while wearing your P and it holds that firmness for a couple of seconds, so you can compare them without waiting for a rub.

Cumming: Limit, Recovery and Refractory

These three settings are the most confusing part of the product, so here they are in one line each:

What each one actually does

Refractory or Recovery? A worked example

Everything at its default - Auto‑Cum on, limit 3, Refractory 30s, Recovery 5 min, and someone rubbing you steadily at the default speed:

• Rubbing starts. Five minutes of steady rubbing to go from 0% to 100%.
• Cum #1. Tally 1 of 3. Refractory now blocks another one for 30 seconds.
• Cum #2 - as soon as Refractory allows it. Tally 2 of 3. They never stopped rubbing, so you were already back at 100%.
• Cum #3 - you're now spent. Tally 3 of 3. Rubbing can no longer push you above 85%, however long they keep going.
• Recovery clears the tally - 5 minutes after that last cum. You're no longer spent, and the ceiling lifts back to 100%.
• Cum #4. Only 45 seconds, because you were still sitting at 85%.

Things worth knowing

• /69 cum is exempt. It makes you cum on demand and never counts toward your limit. It won't fire twice in a row while one is still playing.
• Raising the limit while spent un‑spends you immediately - no need to wait out Recovery.
• Detaching and re‑wearing clears the tally without touching any of your settings. Use that rather than a factory Reset, which puts every setting back to default.
• Spent still feels like something. You stay pinned near 85%, which is exactly the point where a Lovense toy is at your full Max Buzz.

Connecting a Lovense toy

Your rubber can drive a real Lovense toy, so being rubbed in world is something you actually feel. Pairing happens in Second Life, and you only do it once.

1. Get the Lovense app

   Install Lovense Remote or Lovense Connect on your phone and make sure your toy is switched on and paired to the app itself first.

   

2. Open Connect in your rubber

   In world, go to 💜 Lovense 🔗 Connect. A QR code opens on your screen.

3. Scan it in the app

   In Lovense Connect, tap Scan QR at the top. In Lovense Remote, tap the + and then Scan QR.

   

   

4. Approve it

   Approve SG Connect when the app asks.

   

5. You're linked

   The app shows it's being controlled by SG Connect. Nothing else to do - go get rubbed.

   

   

Max Buzz - how strong it gets

💜 Lovense • Max Buzz is a ceiling from 0 to 20, and it defaults to 20. The buzz rises with your arousal, quickly at first and then levelling off, reaching your ceiling at 85% and holding there to 100%.

Set Max Buzz to 0 and the toy never buzzes at all, which is the clean way to mute it without unpairing.

Moans

Your rubber ships with three built-in moans - Moan 1, Moan 2 and Moan 3. They can never be removed. Extra moans are sold separately as small applier objects.

Installing one you've bought

1. Wear or rez your rubber

   It has to be nearby for the applier to find it.

2. Touch the applier

   It installs the moan and switches it on. Touch it again later and it offers to take it back out.

Choose which moans are in rotation at 🔧 Customize 🔊 Sound Select, and remove ones you installed at 🔊 Sound Delete. Only your own installs are listed there - the built-in three are always kept.

Face animation

With FaceAnim on (it's on by default), being grabbed or rubbed plays a facial expression. It rotates through every animation inside your rubber, so you can drop in as many of your own as you like, or take them out.

Chat emotes

Grabs, rubs and arousal milestones each fire a line of text. Under 🔧 Customize 💬 Chat you can set them to show in local chat, keep them Private (only you and the person touching you see them), or switch them off.

Anti‑Spam sets a wait between emotes, counted per person - so one enthusiastic friend can't mute everyone else.

Writing your own

Right‑click your rubber, choose Edit, open the Contents tab and edit the notecard called Chat Messages. It has separate sections for grabs, for rubs (with slower and harder variants), and for arousal milestones at 25%, 50%, 75% and 100%. Full instructions are written at the top of the notecard.

Who can touch you

Block Self sits alongside whichever mode you pick and stops you rubbing yourself. It never locks you out of your own menu - clicking your rubber always opens it.

Range is 3m, 5m, 10m (default), 20m or No Limit. Anyone further away can't touch you at all.

The web dashboard

Everything you can set in world, you can set at dashboard.shitsandgigglessl.com on a proper screen - plus private stats that aren't in the in‑world menu at all.

How the two stay in step

The dashboard also keeps your private stats: how many times you've been touched, who touches you most, who makes you cum, and a recent list that splits grabs from rubs. Nobody else can see it.

Chat commands

Type these in local chat. They only work for you.

Troubleshooting

"The website won't let me save"

Your rubber isn't linked to the dashboard yet. Wear your S&G Web Dashboard HUD, or tap 🌐 Web Login in its menu - the page unlocks by itself within a few seconds.

"I changed something on the website and nothing happened"

Web changes are collected when you wear the product. If you're already wearing it, tap HOME on your S&G Web HUD to fetch them now.

"There's no cock"

The cock is The P by ASA, a separate product you buy and wear yourself. With one worn, check 🍆 The P ▣ Enabled is on, and try /69 cock show.

"I'm not getting any harder"

You're probably past 45% already - that's peak firmness, and it's held from there to 100%. Raise Firmness if you want more at the top.

"My Lovense toy isn't buzzing"

• Is someone actively rubbing? The toy stops the moment they let go.
• Is Max Buzz above 0?
• Is the toy on, charged and connected in the Lovense app? We can't see any of that from our side.
• Still nothing? Tap 💜 Lovense 🔗 Connect and scan again.

"No sound"

Check 🔊 Sound is on and the volume isn't at 25%. Also check you have at least one moan selected under Select.

"The wrong people can touch me"

Check your Access mode and Range, and remember your global Access Lists on the website apply here too. The settings page shows both lists together.

"Arousal is climbing on its own"

Take it off and put it back on. That clears any stuck touch and starts you calm, without changing a single setting.